Remember the days when I would brag about my wonderful baby who would eat anything I put in front of him? Yeah, well… those days are gone. LONG GONE! Here are the days of throwing, smashing and swatting food away. You would think Oliver was aspiring to be the next member of the Blue Man Group the way he launches food out into the audience. (Me, FTD and Professor the cat) It SUCKS!
Going from nipple to nub-the transition to a sippy cup
Today's, "Friday Reader Question," is all about transitioning to a sippy cup.
Q. "Hi April! Have you experimented w/ different sippy cups yet? I've been looking for articles and blogs online but they all say the same stuff, so I was wondering if you had anything you could share. Thanks!"
A. We gave Oliver his first sippy cup, a Dr. Browns "Soft Spout Training Cup," about two months ago when he was 5 months old. (It came with a big Dr. Browns gift set I got at my shower)
We were going for a walk in the height of summer and wanted to bring cold water just for Oliver. Since ice does not fit in the Dr. Browns Bottle, we thought we would try out his sippy cup. At that age he was not strong enough to lift it up to his mouth, so we held it for him while he tried to figure out how to get the water out. Luckily, it only took him a minute or two to figure it out. We decided that the sippy cup was too much trouble and to hold off until Ollie was older. Plain and simple, Oliver was not ready for a sippy cup at five months old.
Fast forward to 7 1/2 months old and Oliver is all about the sippy cup now. At this point I only give him the Dr. Brown's sippy cup when we go for walks since it is still so warm outside. He loves banging it against his stroller and throwing it at me to see how many times I will pick it up and give it back. So far, every time. I am a loser. He still has issues getting it to his mouth, especially matching the spout up to his mouth, but he seems to enjoy the act of trying regardless. I will end up holding it for him 7 times out of 10.
More times than not, I let Ollie drink water from my cup when he needs a quick drink of water to wash down solids or cool off. It usually spills down the front of him, but it works. The sippy cup is just too much trouble to fill up for a few sips of water and then wash all 4 parts. Plus, according to our pediatrician Oliver is getting all of the liquid he needs from nursing. So, at this point the sippy cup is not a regular thing. Plain and simple, I still do not think Oliver is ready for a sippy cup, nor does he need one regularly.
Thank you Mrs. E. for this great question!
Here are some facts about making the transition from nipple to nub. ; )
1. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends – to transition from the bottle at a year, to limit sippy cup use in general and to use the pacifier until age 1 for naps and sleep time only.
Q. "Hi April! Have you experimented w/ different sippy cups yet? I've been looking for articles and blogs online but they all say the same stuff, so I was wondering if you had anything you could share. Thanks!"
A. We gave Oliver his first sippy cup, a Dr. Browns "Soft Spout Training Cup," about two months ago when he was 5 months old. (It came with a big Dr. Browns gift set I got at my shower)
We were going for a walk in the height of summer and wanted to bring cold water just for Oliver. Since ice does not fit in the Dr. Browns Bottle, we thought we would try out his sippy cup. At that age he was not strong enough to lift it up to his mouth, so we held it for him while he tried to figure out how to get the water out. Luckily, it only took him a minute or two to figure it out. We decided that the sippy cup was too much trouble and to hold off until Ollie was older. Plain and simple, Oliver was not ready for a sippy cup at five months old.
Fast forward to 7 1/2 months old and Oliver is all about the sippy cup now. At this point I only give him the Dr. Brown's sippy cup when we go for walks since it is still so warm outside. He loves banging it against his stroller and throwing it at me to see how many times I will pick it up and give it back. So far, every time. I am a loser. He still has issues getting it to his mouth, especially matching the spout up to his mouth, but he seems to enjoy the act of trying regardless. I will end up holding it for him 7 times out of 10.
More times than not, I let Ollie drink water from my cup when he needs a quick drink of water to wash down solids or cool off. It usually spills down the front of him, but it works. The sippy cup is just too much trouble to fill up for a few sips of water and then wash all 4 parts. Plus, according to our pediatrician Oliver is getting all of the liquid he needs from nursing. So, at this point the sippy cup is not a regular thing. Plain and simple, I still do not think Oliver is ready for a sippy cup, nor does he need one regularly.
Thank you Mrs. E. for this great question!
Here are some facts about making the transition from nipple to nub. ; )
1. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends – to transition from the bottle at a year, to limit sippy cup use in general and to use the pacifier until age 1 for naps and sleep time only.
2. In the study, “Injuries Associated with Bottles, Pacifiers, and Sippy Cups" in the United States, 1991-2010,” in the June 2012 Pediatrics (published online May 14), data from the National Electronic Injury Surveillance System for children treated in an emergency department for an injury caused by a bottle, pacifier, or sippy cup were examined. In the U.S., 45,398 children under age 3 were treated in the hospital emergency department between 1991 and 2010 -- or approximately one child every 4 hours. Most injuries (86 percent) occurred from falls while using the products, and 83 percent of falls resulted in lacerations or contusions to the mouth and face. Study authors also found that two-thirds of injuries occurred among 1-year-olds, an age when children are unsteady on their feet and prone to falls. Given the high number of injuries associated with using bottles, pacifiers, and sippy cups, study authors recommend children not use these products beyond the intended ages, and that parents help their children transition to a cup around age 1 as recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics. Source: American Academy of Pediatrics.
3. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics HealthyChildCare.Org website: Children should not be allowed to have water continuously in hand in a “sippy cup” or bottle. Permitting toddlers to suck continuously on a bottle or sippy cup filled with water, in order to soothe themselves, may cause nutritional or in rare instances, electrolyte imbalances. When tooth brushing is not done after a feeding, children should be offered water to drink to rinse food from their teeth.
How would you answer this question? What has your experience been so far?
(If you have a question or topic you would like discussed please email me at Firsttimemomanddad @gmail.com)
Baby-Led Weaning – the Simpleton Edition
(It is with great excitement that I get to present today's post by Guest Blogger, Mrs. Loquacious, author of, The Loquacious Family! She is one of my very favorite Mommy bloggers, a childhood development specialist and a modern day pioneer for Baby-Led Weaning. I find this concept very interesting and have begun feeding Ollie snacks using this method. I asked Mrs. Loquacious to share her understanding and experience with us today. Enjoy!)
Baby-Led Weaning – the Simpleton Edition
In my adventures as a new momma with a slightly crunchy bent, I’ve been consulting with Dr. Google on how to introduce solid foods to my 5-month old in the most natural, granola-y, and developmentally appropriate way possible.
Which led me to this “revolutionary” idea called Baby-Led Weaning. I use parentheses because the truth is, there is nothing new under the sun, and BLW is actually what was practiced by mommas all over the globe prior to the invention of jarred baby mush and kitchen appliances like blenders and food processors. So really, it’s not new at all. It’s just new again, much like how breastfeeding sort of fell out of vogue when infant formula was created, and is only now (in the past decade or so) getting back into prominence.
Anyway, what is BLW? If you Google it, you’ll come across Gill Rapley’s name, an informative Wiki page, and tons of very useful sites with info and recipes and tips, so I’ll let you just go ahead and do that on your free time (ha! What free time?). Exactly. So here it is in a nutshell:
- Baby eats what you eat (real food - no mush!) but in smaller, softer, unsalted finger-food-sized pieces
- Baby feeds herself (I’ll use the feminine since my baby’s a girl) without parents feeding her
- Baby learns to chew before she learns to swallow (the opposite of what occurs when baby eats purees and learns to swallow first)
- Baby explores all sorts of food flavours, textures, smells and colours and develops a diverse palate for (hopefully) different kinds of healthy food
- Baby approaches food as a fun exploratory activity rather than as nourishment for the first year of life, and eventually develops a healthy attitude towards eating that seems to minimize the risk of obesity
Yeah, I know. Sounds kind of hokey and non-intuitive at first, no? I thought so, too. (And BTW, I am by no means an expert on this; I’ve just been spending a lot of my “free” time reading about it over the past few weeks, so here’s my two cents, for what it’s worth). But in keeping with my slightly-crunchy perspective on child-rearing, it made sense to me to “teach” her to chew before swallowing. That is actually one of the critiques of the puree-first approach: babes learn to swallow from a spoon before they learn to chew, so when “solids” (aka Stage 2 foods) are introduced, many infants will want to swallow without chewing first, resulting in a choking hazard. Not so with BLW, since the wee one needs to actually do some sort of chewing to get the food into her mouth in the first place.
In fact, Baby Loquacious hasn’t choked on her food yet, despite shoving a giant piece of MumMum cracker into her mouth. I was worried when half a wedge of her orange also disappeared between her lips, so I went in to try and fish it out. Baby L clamped down and wouldn’t let me get very far, so half of that piece stayed inside her mouth. She promptly swallowed it, without choking or gagging or anything (and keep in mind, this is a pulpy piece of orange – she must have really gummed it up well). She did gag slightly when she gummed off a larger piece of banana, but again she swallowed that chunk within seconds, averting crisis and the need for the Heimlich.
BLW suggests beginning to introduce solids at 6 months, but we started at 5 because Baby L told us she was ready. How? Well, she is strong enough to sit up. She stops, stares, drools, mimics chewing and then gives us the stink eye whenever we eat in front of her without sharing. And the other day, while Hubbs was talking with a yam fry in his hand, she actually reached out and stole it from him, shoving it straight into her mouth.
We’ve already given her avocado, oranges, MumMum crackers, strawberries, lasagna (pasta only), yam fries, toast, bananas, spinach, and steamed carrots. We’ll soon be offering her steamed broccoli, steamed zucchini, and peaches.
The biggest weakness of BLW, I think, is the mess factor. Letting your baby feed herself is like inviting a tornado to tear through your dining area. There is food everywhere, in her hair, on her clothes, in cracks and crevices of the floor and the high chair, on the walls, on you… so it’s not for the super clean freaks out there. You pretty much sign up for nightly baby baths and high chair scrub-downs if you decide to go the BLW route.
But is it fun? Heck yeah. Baby L has totally enjoyed sitting at the dining table and eating when we eat, making a big ol’ mess all the while. LOL!).
Anyway, I’m pretty sold on BLW even though I know that it is a pretty radical shift from the “conventional” approach, and probably doesn’t sit well with all those baby food manufacturers out there. Very little research exists to support the puree-first method, and only a handful of studies on BLW (all of the ones I’ve seen have been favourable) have been done. But as with all mommas, in the end it’s not the research or the reviews that sway me (nor you); it’s my own gut feeling, and this gut is telling me that BLW is the way to go.
Baby’s First Milestone-Eating Solids

I’m really stuck on this issue of baby’s first feeding, but
rightfully so, it’s a huge milestone.
I really want to drive home to my readers, who have not started feeding,
to start thinking about it now. When will you start feeding and
what? Talk to your pediatrician as
soon as possible. Basically a baby
can start handling food at 4 months, but the American Academy of Pediatrics
and most places around the world recommend holding off until 6 months, or
at least until your baby has met certain growth milestones. Next you will want to know
what kind of food you will feed your baby first, (i.e. rice cereal, veggies,
fruits) and will it be store bought or will you make it. This is a huge milestone, you will need
to/want to be prepared.
I thought I was prepared. I knew I wanted to feed him as
soon as he was ready, and that I wanted to make his food. When our pediatrician said go for it,
we did. Now nearly a week later I have some regrets. I know the doctor would not have said
go for it if Oliver were not ready, but I still worry he is too young. However, he is an 18 pound, 26 inch long, 4 month old baby who loves to watch me
eat. Still, he has been exclusively breastfed since birth, he probably would
have been fine to wait until 6 months old. Or would he? I’ll never know, and I
have to get over that.
I worry about his little digestive system and how he feels
with the food in his belly. I have
decided to really slow things down. I’m only feeding him about a tablespoon of
food at dinnertime. He eats with
us. When he starts to demand more
I will feed him more. I follow his
cues, and if he turns up his nose, that’s it with that food… for now.
On a positive note, he opens his mouth and genuinely seems
happy to be eating. He smacked his
little lips together and opens his mouth for more when he is finished. The way
he was so quick to catch on to eating has really put my heart and mind at ease.
And, there is no question feeding him at night with us has helped him sleep
longer and more soundly.
As first time parents, the hubs and I struggle weekly with
different parental decisions. What
we have learned is that we have to own the decisions, and have faith that we
have made the right choice. After hitting this big eating milestone, we have
also realized that we need to start looking down the road to our next
milestone. We need to make sure we
have all of the information and tools necessary to make the right
decision. I cannot recommend
enough that you do the same!
Baby’s first solid food at 4 months
Well it’s official, I fed my four month old son peas. His first taste of real food is good old green smashed pureed peas. YUCK! I figured I would give him something yuck tasting to start with to lower his expectations. Little did I know, but should have expected, he loved the peas!
While Skyping with my mother in-law, my husband gets the bright idea to go ahead and give Oliver his first feeding right that minute, so his mom can share the experience. I was not sure that was the best idea, but voicing that opinion was not an option in front of the ol' MIL, So next thing I know Oliver is in my lap, jar of organic peas in front of me, with the new super cool blunt ended spoon from Dr. Browns (see photo below) and the video recorder pointed right at us. All I could think is, this is going to suck, my mother in-law is going to laugh at me and I’m going to get hosed with peas. Shiters!
Here goes nothing... first small spoonful of peas to his open smiling mouth and BANG he sucks it down! Ok, this is nuts, he loved his first bite of solid food and peas no less! Bring on bite number two… Sucked it right down. I got bold and gave him a little bigger bite, and that’s when it got messy. I had the hubs get his little highchair to sit him in so I could have two free hands, because it was clear he was going to eat his peas. Thank goodness for the blunt ended spoon, because I would shovel it in, he would spit half out and I would just scrap it back in! I actually REALLY enjoyed, no loved, feeding my baby for the first time!
For the first solid feeding, a baby is only supposed to have one to two tablespoons. Well, not my fat boy. He easily ate the first tablespoon worth of peas, and then let me know he was not finished by opening his mouth wide for more. (see photo below) I gave him his second tablespoon worth and he was still not finished. He wanted more peas! I didn’t let him keep going, but I think he would have eaten the whole damn jar if I let him.
By the time we were finished he had peas all over his face, onesie, the burp cloth and me too of course. I put him in the bath, got him ready for bed, nursed him and within seconds he was out cold! I strolled out of his room feeling so proud of my big boy! Not ten minutes later the first scream comes belting out! Oh, no... gas and bad! It took a dose of gas drops, plenty of soothing to get him settled back down. After that he slept very well, with out anymore gassy ass outburst. Score one mommy and Oliver on our first feeding!
Spoiler Alert: Tomorrows post is titled "Mommy fail #5." It will teach you the right way to feed a baby the first time, because I screwed up in more ways than one. I just have an awesome fat boy who wanted solid food even more than I wanted to feed it to him. I also expect a comment or two from this post to add to it...
Spoiler Alert: Tomorrows post is titled "Mommy fail #5." It will teach you the right way to feed a baby the first time, because I screwed up in more ways than one. I just have an awesome fat boy who wanted solid food even more than I wanted to feed it to him. I also expect a comment or two from this post to add to it...
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| I Love this Spoon! |
Tell me that face is not saying,
"MORE FOOD!"
Also, notice the soaking Onesie?
Teething at it's finest hour.
I go through Bibs and Onesise
ALL DAY LONG!






